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Kindness is only taking a backseat

It feels like kindness is dying. What's behind this national dread we are experiencing? May kindness is only taking a back seat.

Is it me or does it feel like kindness is dying? What’s behind this national dread we are experiencing? May kindness is only taking a back seat.

Is it me or is society at large moving up the ladder of neuroticism? I mean, I could be wrong; but I still can’t help but feel it may be true. However, as a man of science, I’d rather have data that backs up my hypothesis, not just say it so.

With that said, I haven’t been able to find any real good data out there. By that I mean, looking at actual science. Yet, despite this, I feel like the compassion, at least at large, is slowly being deprioritized. Noticed I didn’t say melted away or being eroded? Why? Well, because I don’t believe that’s what’s going on.

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What makes me feel like kindness is only taking a back seat as opposed to being destroyed, lies within the very route that is making it feel like it’s being obliterated – Individualism. There is a real difference between prioritizing oneself as an individual and individual’s act of kindness.

Here, let me explain. Firstly, it’s important to realize that selfcare does is not an unhealthy form of prioritizing oneself. In fact, it is needed because in this case, people usually need to stop and take a break because they give themselves too much to others. However, when one constantly prioritizes themselves over what’s best for others is what I am referring to.

Whereas individual acts of kindness are when people give of themselves to help thier friends, their neighbors, and their communities.

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Now, I bet you are saying to yourself; “but John, how does this tie into mental health? Well, simple really. For instance, are you feeling an inexplicable sadness and a feeling of dread, and that society is going crazy? Or do you have anxiety around how uncaring the world seem to be getting? If so, this will enviably impact your mental wellbeing.

Further, I feel like many of us are in self-preservation mode from the constant barrage of toxicity produced by social media and news outlets. I can’t see how an entire nation of individuals trying to save themselves from the events of today can be good for all of us; can you?

 Kindness is only taking a back seat
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In other words, we are in a sort of negative feedback loop; or algorithm if you will. I look out for me, so do you and so does millions more? I sense that this only feeds the collective sense of dread. This safe mode as it were, is not health and in my view, moves us away from what’s best for everyone and closer to what’s best for me. I ask you; how can this be good for our mental health?

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With all that said, don’t despair, for many of us on individual levels, are doing our best to make a real difference. A good example of this is someone you barely know offering you a ride when your car is in the shop, which is exactly what happen to me last week; whist a few friends had offered me a quiet place to write, a room in their home or cottage etc. People one on one are amazing.

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So, in conclusion, if you use your authentic self to help others, those around you notice and what’s more, they legitimately care about your wellbeing. Essentially, kindness, like toxicity, comes back to you and will either ease your mental pain or make it worse. Let’s be kind, grateful and pay it forward.

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