can going against your grain really get you what you want? Or will you end up feeling more anxiety because of it?Tweet
What lies between our ears is nothing short of amazing. Our brains are unlike any other animals on the planet. Its ability to reason and problem-solve, create and dream are top of the intellectual pecking order.
So then, why are mental illness conditions on the rise? Why aren’t we living the eutopia mass marketing is promising us? Well, I believe that mass marketing has re-defined us in such a way that tells us that we are nothing without the latest and greatest gadgets, the newest, in-season apparel and dictates what the definition of beautiful is. All these things don’t make us who we are, but they sure have us convinced that they do. Mental illness can rise out of never being good enough.
The negative impact materialism has on society is undeniable, yet in my opinion, it is not the most impactful on our mental health; rather, it’s the way we set about to buy the things that exacerbate and or contribute to mental illnesses, it’s our occupations for most of us. We are but a cog in a large wheel that few of us have a desire to be participating in.
Going Against Your Grain is the reason I think so many suffer from within. We all have a “pipe dream” that we would all rather be doing, but alas, we need to do what it takes to put clothes on our backs and food in our bellies.
If all you want to do in life is to be a writer, a stay-at-home parent, or a scientist, yet you slug along in a profession that is the polar opposite of your passion, I believe that going against your grain will produce anxiety and depression. For many, it will blossom into a disorder.
We are dreamers and our mental wellbeing suffers when we cannot fulfill the passion that burns within us. Perhaps we need to re-define what our passions are in terms of how they play a role in our lives. Can’t do it for a living? make it a hobby, become an unofficial expert on what you love and most importantly, don’t let your fears stand in your way, if opportunity knocks…… Answer.
if you are suffering from PTSD or another mental illness, please reach out. I thank you for your service and you are still worthy and mean something. I believe in you!
If you are struggling, please go here: Crisis Services Canada
You may also enjoy: Slowly Walking My Way To Mental Wellness.
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